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Zombie Selfies and Data That Won’t Stay Deleted

So a prevalent theme of selfie discourse relates to danger – selfie-takers presented as doing dangerous things in the pursuit of the perfect image or selfie-taking shown to be regulated by chance or by humans in ways that make it dangerous. But this week emerged a new danger, in the form of selfies that won’t stay deleted and can therefore return to haunt the hapless selfie-taker – zombie selfies, if you will.

Internet security firm Avast bought 20 secondhand phones from eBay, and found that even on devices that had been wiped using the factory reset option, there was still an awful lot of data left over. Avast found that:

 “of 40,000 stored photos extracted … more than 750 were of women in various stages of undress, along with 250 selfies of what appears to be the previous owner’s manhood. There was an additional 1,500 family photos of children, 1,000 Google searches, 750 emails and text messages and 250 contact names and email addresses.”

This news story is interesting in that it was repeatedly reported in a way that framed selfies as the most volatile and therefore newsworthy type of data. Headline after headline referenced  the dreaded prospect of “naked selfies” being released, unwittingly, into the public domain:

‘Factory wipe’ on Android phones left naked selfies and worse, study finds – The Guardian 11th July 2014
Naked selfies extracted from ‘factory reset’ phones – BBC News 11th July 2014
‘Wiping’ Android phones does NOT delete your naked selfies – The Daily Mail 9th July 2014

Snapchat has demonstrated in the past the considerable problems that stem from deleted photos being anything but deleted – and, if you ask me, the even greater ‘problem’ of claiming to create a technology that protects people, but that makes them susceptible to victim-blaming and humiliation when it doesn’t work. But this news story takes selfie-panic, and selfie-disgust, in a new direction.

Firstly, the story focuses on the selfies that the researchers found, adding almost as an afterthought all the emails, texts and contacts that were also retrieved in huge quantities. Not to mention the fact that there were photographs of children on the phones, which one might expect would cause considerable alarm. A few years ago, this story would have been reported in terms of the potential for identity theft which these phones represented. But attention has shifted within popular news discourse to focus on the selfie, using it as a kind of modern folk-devil to symbolise a range of social problems and anxieties.

Secondly, the prospect of ‘naked selfies’ that cannot be deleted recalls other, much older forms of social stigma that cannot be removed. Rather than approach digital technologies as offering something liberatory and fun, we are encouraged instead to view every act of photography as a potential burden that can mark us forever, the shame lingering long after we had hoped to eradicate it. This is simple fear-mongering, evident in The Daily Mail‘s assertion that wiping phones does not delete your selfies. The ‘you’ referred to is both assumed to take naked selfies, and chastised for doing so, the fear of shame being used as a means for curbing behaviour.

The not-so-subtle subtext of this story is that the limitations of technology are to result in limitations in our own photographic practice. This recalls Eric Schmidt’s laughable statement that “If you have something that you don’t want anyone to know, maybe you shouldn’t be doing it in the first place”.  If you don’t want everyone to see your naked selfies, then judging by this story, you must never take them at all. If we, as users, cannot ensure our own safety through doing what we assumed would wipe the phone, then extra preventative steps are needed.  Because if naked selfie-taking is not ‘safe’, or any behaviour one might assume, then presumably it should not be done at all.

Of course this is an absurd limitation on personal freedom, and conceptualises things in simplistic terms of safe / not safe. One cannot stay indoors every day for fear of what might happen outdoors, and the same applies here. Instead of presenting selfie-taking as something to be feared, and as an uncontrollable monster, we need a reframing of the conversation, that conceptualises data breaches such as this without resorting to shaming. But that would require a shift in the perception of selfies, away from corrosive notions of embarrassment or disgrace, towards an acceptance that – gosh!- some people like to take photos of themselves. I’m not going to hold my breath, though.

Channel Four Wants You to “Shut Your Facebook”

I watched a Channel 4 programme on Monday called Shut Your Facebook. As I was watching it, I couldn’t sit still for my excitement – here was social media discipline at its absolute zenith.Screen Shot 2014-04-10 at 11.04.10The programme looks at the social media habits of young people, considering how each could be problematic in terms of getting a job, damaging the person’s reputation and so on. But it is really nothing more than an excuse to have a good long gawp at the behaviour of young people, and to tut tut at their drinking, their sexual innuendos and their apparent lack of control. And the show’s main message, a lesson solemnly and repeatedly imparted, relates to the importance of control, particularly self-control. Subjects are instructed in how to main a disciplined approach to one’s online persona, rather than ‘let it all hang out’. Thereby, a sublimated rage at young people’s freedom, and a disgust with their bodies and behaviours, is funnelled into a form of benevolent guidance. It’s very similar to other makeover shows, particularly What Not to Wear, in the way that it presents the correction of problematic subjects as a form of entertainment. For a wonderful analysis of What Not to Wear, considering the makeover show as a legitimation of gendered class disdain, I recommend Angela McRobbie’s book The Aftermath of Feminism.

Ok, so back to our undisciplined Facebookers. To truly capture what the show is doing, I’ll describe its main scenes:

The show starts with a montage of some images and video clips, featuring young people passed out, vomiting, bearing their bodies, sitting on the toilet and so on. The voiceover states that:

“we want to find the nation’s worst social media sinners, from online obsessives, to extreme oversharers, from the positively hopeless, to the startlingly stupid. We’re going to show them how their online antics can affect their real life prospects, and see if we can shock, shame or surprise them into thinking again.”

As a statement of intent, this does two things – it describes the techniques it will be using (e.g. shame) and positions the recipients as meriting this intervention, this punishment.

First up is “party-boy Christian”. We see a sequence of shots from his Facebook page, featuring drinking, nudity, blow-up penises and so on. He states that he’s not bothered about being private, or about other people’s perception of him in relation to these images. The voice over tells us that in real life (a statement in itself) Christian is a recruitment consultant, and sets up a bizarre sequence in which Christian sits in a couple of mock interviews. His manner is professional, and he reveals he is good at his job and exceeds the targets set for him. He states that “as long as you’re professional outside of work, what goes on outside of work doesn’t matter” – and who wouldn’t agree that we all have the right to a private life? Well, this show apparently, as it supports the invasion of privacy that is employers looking at online profiles (cue scenes of shock and disgust, and yet another excuse to look at naked bodies). Sure, Christian might be wise to make his profile private, but the shaming he is subjected to by one mock-interviewer left me stunned. “Repulsive… he’s a no-hoper…sic. End of the day, it’s shit… This is terrible, this is really bad”

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The interviewer, above reprimands him saying “that’s not professional Christian, that’s not going to get you a job” – as McRobbie and Foucault argue, contemporary discourses of the self encourage a self-monitoring and regulation which makes the subject fit for work, productive, and able to engage with the demands of global capitalism. Christian’s partying ways clearly prevent him from being able to fulfil this objective, so he must be corrected. Although the message is being delivered in relation to his images, it is clear that he is being shamed for the behaviour itself. The interview concludes with a warning: “carry on doing what you’re doing in your own sweet way, but you won’t go anywhere.” The message is clear: do as we say, or you don’t get the life you want.

Next up is Charlie, a young woman who, again, loves to party with her friends. Cue montage. The problem, we hear, is that her friends like to tag photos of her which she finds ugly or embarrassing. Cue more photos. We are encouraged to see that yes, Charlie does seem to do a lot of embarrassing things, from pulling funny faces, to passing out on the floor. Not entirely unusual for a woman her age. But here such behaviour is presented as problematic, and in need of correction. But rather than ask her friends not to tag her, cue the arrival of a photographer who will take some more flattering snaps of Charlie for her profile.

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“Being camera-ready is clearly a concept Charlie has yet to master” we are told. The photographer will “give her, and you, tips for taking a profile pic to be proud of” – contrasts of pride and shame further the programme’s claimed objective to regulate viewers, as well as the subjects depicted. Also, rather than address anti-social group behaviours (her friends after all know that this tagging distresses her), the message is that she should change herself, and make her profile less embarrassing by being less embarrassing. In essence, she should be the photo she wants to display to the world. “By me telling you to turn away” says the photographer “you’re losing three inches” – the fact that this is ludicrous for someone Charlie’s size is lost beneath a wink shared with the viewer, in which we all want to look smaller, don’t we, eh?

To impart these messages, the programme also sends “fellow photo disaster area” Chelsea Healey to speak to Charlie. This exchange reminds me of a page on the defunct revenge porn website Pink Meth, where victims were encouraged to submit stories of their comeuppance as a warning to other women to “lock down their dirty pics”. In both cases, we have those who have been punished according to society’s rules of photography, imparting the need to be regulated to others. A perfect circle of discipline. Chelsea asks Charlie how she feels in relation to her new photos – “more classy” is the answer. The class-dimensions of this narrative, and the taming of her wild, sexual persona online, are another thesis in themselves… “She now looks more hot stuff, than hot mess” the narrator concludes.

There follows a bizarre section featuring a ‘Naked Nerd’ – a naked man whose role it seems is to impart advice and coerce viewers into agreeing with the show’s edicts, whilst giving the camera something to focus in on. “You can trust him, because he’s naked” we’re told. The connection between any form of ‘oversharing’ and physical nudity is one that’s been made before, such as by Ben Agger. But here it serves merely to up the flesh content of the show, and provide and interestingly hypocritical contrast between good public bodily display (when used by a TV company to prove a point) and bad public bodily display (when done by young people).

The next subject is Brayden, whose social media use conflicts with his boyfriend’s wish to have a conversation. Cue a scene where he is shown to be a “dick @ dinner”, by virtue of texting and snapping throughout a meal at a restaurant.

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Now, there is a big difference, in my mind, between the subjects discussed so far in this programme. Whereas Charlie or Christian’s behaviour is labelled as “sick” or “embarrassing” and in need of correction, Brayden’s use of his phone causes a different problem, in that it distresses his partner, and makes him feel ignored. It’s Brayden’s lack of consideration for his boyfriend’s needs that’s the problem, not his social media use per se. The programme continues by asking if we, the viewers, are “phubbers” – i.e. phone snubbers, people who focus on their phones instead of those around them. We are then asked to report the worst “phubbers” by tweeting to the programme, via #shutyourfacebook.

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Interaction with the programme is doubly disciplinary: either in the form of following a link to read their advice, or through reporting their friends’ transgressions. Peer regulation, through tweeting, is therefore naturalised as a fun accompaniment to watching television.

The next section addresses a problematic selfie-taker, in the form of Dominique, whose sexy selfies, we are told, despite being liked by scores of men, “haven’t helped her find a man in the real world”. The voiceover wonders whether it’s because Dominique in person looks different from her photographic self (mostly because she’s wearing more clothing). There follows a strange conversation between her and Chelsey Healey, in which Chelsea questions what Dominique enjoys doing, and marvels at the answer: extreme sports. Chelsea says “I’d never have guessed”, implying that Dominique’s “sexy” online persona should be read as encompassing the totality of her interests. This ties in with a troubling feature of discourse regarding online identity performance, namely that we should strive to present one ‘authentic’ self. Mark Zuckerberg is a central proponent of this, repeatedly stating that “you have one identity”. Here we see the limitations of this norm, in that identity is never singular, but must be understood as shifting, multiple and unstable. Dominique is a perfect example of this – she enjoys sports and sexualised self-performance, but the coercion towards embodying one coherent self might lead her to favour presenting one aspect of her life over others. Which then, paradoxically, means that people like Chelsea get puzzled when they hear she is actually a more complex person that her pictures imply. The problem is not the pictures – it’s how we interpret them. Assuming that we can know anyone from their pictures, no matter what they look like, is a fallacy.

But the programme persists, and displays Dominique’s images on a wall for the judgement of “the local lads”. One set of images displays her sexy side, one her interest in sports. The interpretations the male critics make of the images is predictably vapid, in that the ‘sexy’ set is “not as natural” and “off-putting”. The fact that they are asked to choose which “girl” depicted they would want for their girlfriend makes a mockery of the whole ‘experiment’, in that they condemn Dominique’s sexy pictures for looking too focused on finding a man, whilst firmly reinforcing the sense in which selecting and presenting these images should be with a male viewer in mind. Presumably Dominique will find such advice more compelling when it’s offered by a male? The voiceover concludes that “Blokes in real life want a girl who covers up online”. Generalisation, tick; slut-shaming, tick; hypocrisy; tick. And the programme cannot resist one last swipe at Dominique, for not following their advice. We are told she continues to upload sexy photos, and concludes that “who needs one boyfriend when you can have thousands of strangers giving you the thumbs up?” Her refusal to play ball and ‘tone down’ thereby places her in a devalued position, where intimacy is foregone in favour of the empty esteem of strangers. That the show delivers such a blatant moral condemnation almost as an afterthought demonstrates the prevailing sense of disgust which motivated its creation. The point is hammered home by the Naked Nerd, who advises with some statistics produced as if from thin air, that men like girls who keep their clothes on. And to unpack that statement would require yet another thesis.

Screen Shot 2014-04-10 at 10.35.33The last subject is Caolan, a young man who has become popular on Facebook through producing short videos of himself and his friends acting out dramatic storylines set within a series of hotels and bars. It looks like a young person’s version of Dynasty, so no wonder people watch it. He speaks quite frankly about wanting fame and luxury, is depicted drinking champagne, and reveals that he uses credit cards and loans to fund his tastes. He’s fairly dismissive about his debt, and indeed nothing seems particularly abnormal about his behaviour – young people enjoying life, spending too much money, looking for approval and notoriety. But again this must be turned into a morality tale, and Caolan is given two large bags of pound coins to carry around, a symbolic version of his debt. Caolan expresses dismay at his debt seeming “more real”, his punishment apparently working.

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But again, the voiceover reveals that he went back to his old spending ways. The concluding comment delivered to Caolan, however, is notable for its comparable lack of venom. None of the moral disgust levelled at Dominique, but instead a shake of the head and tsk in the form of “he calls himself a student”. Discipline in relation to online behaviour is therefore highly gendered, and not distributed equally. Economic transgressions are presented as being not as problematic as sexual impropriety.

I feel I should submit this programme instead of my thesis, and just point at it.

Dishing ‘The Dirty’

In a previous post, I looked at the site People of Walmart and how photographs are used to shame people. Another website which uses images to identify and label spoiled identities, is The Dirty. Started in 2007, this gossip site forms an outlet for readers and webhost Nik Richie to vent their anger and derision at a range of targets, from local party goers and flashy high-spenders, to women with cosmetic surgery and hedonistic lifestyles. A principle component of the discussion concerns imposing shame upon female subjects, in relation to their (alleged) behaviour or their appearance, or both.

The discussion of women’s bodies on the site is so pervasive and specific that a new set of terms has been coined, which can be accessed on the site’s ‘dirty dictionary’[i]. These terms reveal the objectifying principle lying behind the display and assessment of women through photographs – a thin woman is called an ITG or Inner Thigh Gap and a woman’s fake breasts are +2s, as they “increase her value two points on a ten point scale”. A typical comment using such terms appeared beneath a collection of images, of a woman smiling, standing in a bar, wearing a silver dress; in a bikini; and posing with a man:

[name’s] ass is fake, her face is huge, she needs a major +2’s job, and to stop getting so trashed.

Not only do such comments reveal a sense of disgust at the woman’s body, but also a generalised disapproval of her behaviour. This condemnation of a woman’s life choices is a prevalent theme in the case studies I have examined, particularly in relation to involuntary porn, where the woman’s choice to be photographed naked is then used to legitimise her abuse. Here, the anonymous source who submitted these images and this commentary does so with a specific wish to discipline the woman concerned:

[name] needs to know not everybody thinks she’s as hot as she pretends

Given that the commenter suggests that her target “needs to know” something, their chosen method of making this known is revealing. Rather than approach the woman directly, a more spectacular and public method is selected, in which group disapproval and recognition as devalued is conceived of as a more effective punishment than an individual’s condemnation.

The importance of the photograph in this context is due to its ability to act both as evidence (showing a woman drinking from a champagne bottle, say) and as a claim for ownership over the meaning of the image, and the woman depicted. This second principle can be demonstrated in relation to another image, of three women in bikinis on a beach. All three look and smile at the camera. The person submitting the image, who importantly has had access to the image in the first place, asks who they are, and notes:

I’ve seen them out and about and think they are beautiful but I’ve heard some not so good things about them.

In one sentence, the commenter both commends the women depicted, and shifts the significance of the image to depict their own perspective. Rather than ‘just’ three women, they are now marked as problematic. This ability to not only show but also define subjects is a dominant component of practices of photographic discipline: besides being shown something perceivable as problematic, we can also be presented with anything or anyone and told that ‘this is problematic’. Showing and labelling are interlinked activities, and as we shall see in the examples below, can be used in the service of widespread slander and abuse.

A prime concern of The Dirty’s readers is the sexual behaviour of women, primarily young women. Such is the level of interest, new terms have been coined here as well, to identify specific types of devalued subject. A woman who is viewed as both a slut and a whore is called a ‘slore’, and a ‘shougar’ is a woman who is both a cougar (an older woman looking for sex with younger men) and a ‘shim’ (a woman who looks like a man). These terms are revealing of the worldview presented by the site, as they provide specific recriminations for instances of perceived deviance of female sexuality, relating to age, appearance and behaviour.

A dominant theme relates to ‘exposing’ women whom the submitter alleges are sex workers. This accusation appears to be the most severe insult that can be labelled at their targets, and descriptions are supplied with great relish and detail. The purpose of uploading and sharing such information is to publicly shame the individuals depicted, and enable the submitter to define reality according to their own perspective. Under two separate images of women, both taken by the subjects themselves, appear the following comments:

I met this girl on plenty of fish and it ends up she’s trying to sell her body and she is so nasty and fat and she wears like a pound of makeup.

This is [name]…She is escorting which is no secret… [name] you are on the wrong side of 30 please get a grip on life… Stop selling your body and get a real job…she is a dirty sl*t and needs to be exposed (sic).

I had to post up these two teasing little twins…rumor is that if you’ve got $2k you can take both of them home.

The notion of subjects ‘needing to be exposed’ illustrates the connection between power and knowledge, in which power is claimed over others by virtue of knowing something (especially something personal and private) about them. Additionally, the commenter hints at the perceived injustice of bad behaviour being kept secret, positioning their act as performing some sort of public service. Gossip is therefore reframed as having a positive disciplinary effect, by conveying social disapproval about certain behaviours, and fostering an environment where certain subjects are logically perceived as requiring correction.

Additionally, the second commenter’s referencing of “the wrong side of 30” demonstrates the degree to which age plays a part in these narratives. Notions of age appropriate behaviour are enforced, restricting participation within the visible sexual economy to those within a narrow demographic. The idea of the ‘cougar’, as a predatory older woman, is used to chastise and regulate subjects, and serves to retain the marker of being ‘desirable’ for a select, privileged group. But even the sexual activity of younger women is subject to scrutiny, primarily in relation to who they choose to sleep with:

Both of these teenage slores are sleeping with dudes in their 30s.

[name] had her ex buy her all kinds of sh*t … Meanwhile she was banging me and like 3 other guys. I also learned she screwed this super fat kid, just shows what levels she’s on.

The behaviours of the women themselves are questioned because they deviate from what the commenter expects of normative feminine sexuality. In this context, young women who have relationships with older men are characterised as ‘slores’, and another woman’s infidelity is criticised despite the commenter claiming to have participated in this wrongdoing. This comment assumes that the reader will interpret her activity as not reflecting negatively on him, and is so confident in this separation that he can further devalue her by critiquing her alleged relations with a “super fat kid”. On this site, photographs and comments serve to creative a narrative of female subjects in which the double standard is not just sustained, but actively promoted. In combination, social media’s reach and photography’s illustrative capacity create a potent vehicle for enacting gender discipline, repackaged as fun and legitimate.

Bad Selfie Practice

An interesting aspect of discipline in relation to photography is that it is not necessarily a shameful body or appearance that need be depicted (as seen on People of Walmart, for example) in order for the subject to be devalued. Instead, the act of photographing in itself can be the grounds for shaming the photographer. This complicates the notion of selfie-taking as empowering and democratic (perhaps deliberately so) as it reinstates the authority of the external, social voice over personal photographic acts. Rather than digital technologies offering the possibility of photographing oneself in any way desired, this type of discourse constrains the realm of what is legitimately photographable.

The selfie is frequently identified as connoting undesirable qualities in the subject, from narcissism and insecurity, to arrogance and a detachment from the ‘realities’ of life. This concept of the selfie is primarily based on a set of assumptions regarding the individual’s participation within social life and social spaces, relating to where interest in and concern for the self should end, and attention instead be directed towards others. Whether or not taking selfies indicates a genuine lack of concern for others is, of course, not something which can be firmly established or contested here. But it is the manner in which they are assumed to be indicative of selfish behaviour that is significant, in that it enables certain photographic behaviours to be regarded as legitimate grounds for criticising the subject.

Worst SelfieThe following examples demonstrate this discourse of the selfish selfie, linking selfie-taking with inappropriate behaviour within a specific context. The first image, taken by New York Post photographer Paul Martinka in December 2013, depicts a woman taking a photograph with the Brooklyn Bridge in the background, on which a man is being persuaded by emergency services personnel not to jump. The assumed event depicted by the photograph is that the woman is taking a selfie of herself with the suicidal man. The outrage prompted by this image led it to be called The Worst Selfie Ever, as it was seen to depict a quintessential instance of the selfish urge to be the centre of attention, even during a life-or-death situation. That photography can be interpreted in this way, as not just a breach of etiquette, but also indicative of some sort of pathological need for visibility at the expense of others, illustrates its use as a basis for evaluating and disciplining others.

The alternative explanation for the image received little coverage in comparison with the ‘selfie-ish’ interpretation, presumably because it does not fit the wider narrative where a) selfies are equated with selfish behaviour, and b) women’s photographic practice requires regulation. Nevertheless, examination of the image suggests that the angle her phone is pointing at could not capture the scene on the bridge behind her. Her phone would need to be where the newspaper photographer is standing, in order to frame the shot she is assumed to be taking. It should also be noted that she is standing at a popular spot for taking tourist images, and might well be snapping herself with the bridge’s famous towers. The photograph we see, taken by the reporter, has likely been framed in order to suggest a selfish selfie, knowing that this references wider discourses of photography and propriety, and therefore constitutes a story.

No Selfie RespectThe next image, taken at the Nelson Mandela memorial in Soweto on the 10th December 2013 by Roberto Schmidt, shows three world leaders leaning in to take a picture of themselves on a mobile phone. The Sun’s headline sums up the hysterical reaction to the image in the media, stating that it shows “No Selfie Respect”. Condemnation of the image suggested that, like the previous example, it exemplified a problematic lack of decorum, made worse by the authority of the figures involved, and the assumed lack of respect such behaviour showed to the deceased. Referred to as ‘Selfie-gate’ and as sparking an ‘international incident’, both the pun here and the wider criticism rely on the public discourse of selfies – that they are acts of self-centred glorification, whose triviality and frivolousness does not prevent them from profoundly conflicting with and undermining the solemnity of the occasion.

Funeral1The conflict between what selfies are perceived to connote, and the socially-required behaviours of certain events and contexts, is the subject of two related sites: Selfies at Funerals[i] and Selfies at Serious Places [ii]. Here, the symbolic clash between the connotations of the vapid, self-aggrandising selfie, and the expectation of solemnity prompted by certain contexts, provides ample fuel for viewers’ condemnation, and much hand-wringing about the state of today’s youth. The first site features images taken at funerals, such as that shown left, in which the subject has tagged the image “#boyfriend #gorgeous #funeral #grandad #wake #hipster #tags for likes #photo of the day #like #follow”. This incongruous list of concerns, regarding “likes” and “photo of the day” does suggest an apparent lack of comprehension of the event they are attending.

The second website mentioned, Selfies at Serious Places, features selfies at Auschwitz, Anne Frank’s house, the Berlin Holocaust memorial, the Twin Towers site, Pearl Harbour, Iwo Jima and the Vietnam memorial. As with the funeral selfies, a conflict arises between the depiction of self-interest, as represented by the selfie, and the contextual requirement for contemplation of and compassion for others. This rather tasteless and touristic view of humanity is extended through other images, which feature selfies in front of accidents, fires and the homeless. These sites have an explicit disciplinary effect, by publicly shaming subjects who have used photography in a way that is presented as unsociable, and by making statements about appropriate behaviour. An apology, from a young man who took a selfie, complete with thumbs-up, in front of the Holocaust memorial, makes this discipline apparent:

I know you probably think I’m just an idiot who is willing to put pictures like that on the internet, and you’re not too wrong. You’ve really made me think about it, and I’d like to thank you for that.[iii]

Discussions relating to such selfies call for a revised approach to intergenerational discipline, with comments strongly advocating physical punishment counterbalanced by those who promote educating children about the social implications of photography, particularly during such a sensitive occasion. Although the focus on the needs of the self, to be amused and to be visible even at such a time of mourning or contemplation, will likely strike most as inappropriate, it is unlikely that this indicative of some kind of generational degradation. Rather, it is more a case of young people having yet to acquire an understanding of the social mores that apply in different contexts, particularly with respect to the use of mobile phones. It is not surprising that a teen who cannot help but text and tweet during their lessons, also continues such behaviour during a funeral. Without adequate guidance and understanding of how photography acquires social meaning, both young (and old) will continue to incorporate photography into contexts not usually sanctioned. Learning how to use these new technologies courteously is a learning process for everyone, not least of all those who are still familiarising themselves with social expectations.

These examples show that the rules relating to selfie-taking are vigorously enforced, and that perceived mistakes are used within a much wider conversation about how certain groups – particularly young people and women – should behave. Although I do not support the use of photography for disciplining subjects’ identity, I would also find it hard to defend selfies taken at funerals. Whereas I argue that the disciplinary discourse regarding selfies in general is deeply problematic, in that is supports generalised social control, the funeral selfie constitutes problems of its own. By displaying a specific contextual inattention, where the positive functions of taking such an image (as identity negotiation etc.) have been prioritised within the unique circumstances of mourning and loss, and which remove the subject’s claims for legitimacy. Selfie-taking is therefore neither universally positive or negative, but like any other creative practice, is context-dependent. To address this specific problem requires a greater sensitivity, both when using one’s camera, and when assessing the images, and identities, of others. Shaming, on the other hand, bypasses the fostering of understanding, in favour of simply repressing certain behaviours – which is what makes shame, in relation to photography, such an effective and prevalent tool for discipline.

‘Bad mother’ selfies

As I will be discussing on this blog, notions of good and bad are used extensively in relation to women’s photographic practice, in a way of controlling other – unrelated – behaviours. Selfies are a particularly good example of this distinction between acceptable and not, with numerous web galleries displaying the selfie ‘gone wrong’. ‘Wrongness’ in this context relates to a variety of factors, reflecting both technological unfamiliarity (taking the picture at the wrong moment, or from an unflattering angle) and a spoiled identity (depicted doing something unacceptable or unattractive to the viewer).

Although numerous oppositions exist (the ‘sexy’ selfie relying on the ‘unsexy’ selfie for definition, the ‘flattering’ selfie similarly requiring its less valued counterpoint), the archetypical ‘bad’ selfie exists at an intersection of ‘bad’ behaviour and perceived undesirability. This is the ‘bad mother selfie’, which comprises a self-taken image of a semi-nude woman (or in an otherwise revealing outfit or pose), where there is a child visible in the background. The child in these examples are not involved in or a feature of the woman’s pose – on the contrary, they appear as if by accident, and many appear oblivious or at least disinterested in the photograph being taken. The images, however, are held as evidence, and the viewer is asked to speculate on a situation in which they:

discover old photos on the internet with you in them that confirm your mother was a slut and a half.[i]

Images of ‘bad mothers’ serve to shame the subjects, and act as ‘proof’ of deserving that shame, with the condemnation regulating women’s sexuality, and imposing ideas of ‘appropriateness’ in relation to women’s presentation of self.

Another attention whore XD now that she is not prego anymore, she doesnt get all the attention…so she does things like this (sic)[ii]

Fucking pathetic. Take care of you kid bitch and stop worrying about how hot you look in the mirror [iii]

This discipline is enacted not just on the women depicted, but also on the viewer, who is encouraged to be complicit in the policing of the boundaries between motherhood and sexuality.

The criticism to be found on sites such as Student Beans[iv] and EpicFail concerns a symbolic clash, between sexuality and children, which means that the viewer cannot respond to these images as ‘normal’ sexy selfies, therefore leading to criticising the subject for their ‘attention whoring’ and for setting a bad example.